Monthly Archive for October, 2009

Day 1 of phone calls done

We had a few missed sessions due to a variety of reasons however it went well overall and was nice to ‘connect’ to the public! Now relaxing with a glass of shiraz. Up early for more phone chats tomorrow and Monday next week. We were inundated with interest so maybe something we look at doing from time to time.

Been out on the balcony relaxing, it’s really lovely out tonight. Going to book in a candlelit dinner out there for next week I think.

I trained today and nearly died! Firstly it was hot. Second, I had 5 exercises one after the other with 10 seconds rest between. Try this workout, all 10 reps:

Thruster (squat with shoulder press)
DB Iron Cross (squat with rear delt fly)
DB Swing – 20 reps
Burpees
Prisoner squat jump
3 mins rest then do it all again

This shows how out of form I really am. I couldn’t even do all the burpees 2nd time around. I did 15 mins of cardio prior.

Diet today:

1/4 cup oats (it really goes a long way)
1/2 cup cottage cheese
handful of bran cereal
sugar free maple syrup

1/2 cup cottage cheese
blueberries
natural yoghurt
bran cereal
sugar free maple syrup

Post workout:
Scoop of choc whey protein
raspberries
natural yoghurt
bran cereal

Glass of red wine

My dinner will be:

Chicken
veggies, mixed with 1tsp pesto
mango chutney
sprinkle of feta

Tomorrow I have a 6.45am chat scheduled so will be up and at ‘em early. Training will have to be later in the morning. Actually the power is scheduled to go off from 9am to 1pm which I’m not real excited about. It is going to be hot tomorrow so I will miss the a/c! Training tomorrow will be legs. I am also going to book in a massage for Friday, half price, how can I not.

I THINK we are doing dinner with Nadia and Pete tomorrow night at the Spanish Bar and Grill (which just won best steak restaurant in Oz – not bad for a country town!). I must check with Nadia. We haven’t caught up properly for a long time so I am looking forward to our night out.

We have a few big weeks coming up with some mainstream mag advertising coming out next Monday followed by a special ‘eblast’ email advertising campaign.

Oh yeah and it’s Melbourne Cup Day soon and we still haven’t decided what to do for it. I believe it’s meant to be rotten hot the day prior (39 degrees) so maybe the dusty races may not be such a good idea though I have not been to the races for awhile and do enjoy it.

Wine has gone to my head so time to go and eat.

All about the mindset

I was reading Fighter Diet blog today and I thought this was worthy of reprinting:

I can’t stand complaining when it comes to dieting and training. People have to accept that there are rules that must be followed to reach their goals. As long as you are looking for an easier way out, you won’t be loyal to your principles. It’s all about the mindset. Instead of seeing something as “not being allowed” or “cannot have,” you have to tell yourself that you can choose the foods that help you reach your goals and you can choose to avoid the ones that don’t. In other words, you have the right to eat whatever crap you want, but if you do, it’s just because you are not 100% committed.

Well, I am about to put this computer away and bring out my trashy novel which I haven’t done for awhile. Watching a tornado show at the moment – they absolutely fascinate me.

I had a day off training yesterday as we traveled home from Murrayville – was home around midday but I was really buggered for some reason, and I even slept in til 10am – I cannot remember the last time I have done that! The day we left I did cardio when I got up, and trained at lunchtime so was pleased to get that done before going. Been waking with a headache every day as I was so in need of a chiro visit – of which I had today thank goodness.

So training is good, I may have mentioned I am doing 2 sessions a day – cardio and weights. The weight sessions are only 20-30 mins at this stage, 7 out of 8 days. Though I will take a day off whenever I feel it’s warranted. I am getting really sore because I have been so inconsistent. The chin ups on day 1 kept my lats sore for about 5 days! Cardio today was done on my tready – 20 mins of Body For Life cardio. Tomorrow I will do a longer, steady state session, outdoors.

I’ve been answering some interview questions for an article in Oxygen. But my brain is a bit fried now so will leave it til tomorrow.

I have a build up of massage sessions I should use before the end of the year, such a pity :) One a week until end of year from now on I think! Been trying a few different ones of late. I always get a recommendation before I go see someone though, I’m pretty particular about my massages.

Battery about to die so off I go to read.

Well I have been a little slack on the blog front haven’t I? I didn’t get a huge amount of time while in Qld and when I did I wanted to relax and get away from the computer for a while. It was lovely to catch up with Kristin again, and despite what she may say on her blog she is still looking fantastic. Equally as good to meet Sharna finally too! Sharna was very impressive bringing her food along with her, even while on holidays – testimony to her dedication as she focuses on comp prep for next year. We also caught up with Hils and her baby belly – she is looking great – hard to believe she doesn’t have that long to go!

I only trained twice while I was away – one session at Bodizone’s studio, and another in Broadbeach. I did a bit of walking but otherwise I was just busy working and doing stuff.

It is such a lovely part of the world and so relaxing. I had the best apartment, it was big, with ocean views, and a lovely pool area. I did manage a couple of hours by the pool while there – enough to get a bit of sunburn.

It took me awhile to get back into training when I got home too. I have been rather blase about it to be honest – I don’t like it much either! It’s interesting how you can find the time when you have a comp on (because you have to). So, as of Thursday I was back into it and let me say it’s pretty scary how easily you lose strength and fitness. I did a leg session yesterday and decided to start squatting again. I didn’t go too hard but boy my legs are really, really sore today. Today I went outdoors for some stair work and a bit of jogging and walking. Tomorrow is my fave training day, shoulders and back. Tomorrow night we are going for a hit of tennis. The weather has improved finally and today was just beautiful. Meant to be getting quite hot over the next few days.

Our gym has had a bit of a makeover recently and I think it’s awesome now. Carpet throughout, new treadies, and heaps of room.

We had a lovely bbq dinner at a friend’s house last night, along with a few too many wines. Tonight we cooked a lamb roast and had that with some veggies for dinner.

Site updates and new advertising campaigns are takimg up a lot of my work time of late. It’s exciting to have everything coming together though.

Oh, and we have yet another Body Blitz winner! Two in a row and that makes 17 overall :) Well done to Fiona McConnell who recently completed a Personal Success Mentor program with us. The lovely Karen Lewis was her mentor and who obviously did a great job keeping Fe on the straight and narrow.

I have FINALLY caught up on my inbox. It has been overloaded since I have been away. Even though I work while away, for some reason it always takes days to catch up when I get back. Printing to be done, snail mail to be opened, packages to be sent, bills to be paid, washing to be done, and so on and so forth. Phew, I’m on top of things again.

Anyway so no real exciting news for the moment. Hope everyone has had a great weekend, am looking forward to hearing how the Olympia went.

On my way…

I was so excited to be flying out to Qld today that I got up at 3am. Yeah right. Well I got up at 3am anyway, not because I wanted to! Actually I lie, I WOKE at 3am, got up at 4, back to bed at 6, only to get up again without further sleep, at 7. So, umm, I’m a bit sleep deprived. I managed to sneak a few zzz’s on the trip from Mildy to Melb, and felt a little better on arriving, however the 3 hour wait I have here at Tulla is not so fun. I was even too early to check in so still have all my luggage with me. And, I have internet issues already (again). I have been having major problems with my Bigpond wireless device, every time I go away. So, anyway it just down my computer at Mildy airport, and of course when I go to reopen it, my email takes…40 mins and still counting…to reopen. I can see I am going to be highly productive if it stays like this. It’s been stuck on ’9 minutes remaining’ for about 10 minutes. I can’t cancel it otherwise I will have to go through the entire process again!!!! Talk about driving me insane.

Anyway, re all the blog hoohah that went on, I think it’s safe to say we all settled pretty much exactly where we begun – that everyone is different and some approaches will suit some people and not others. Certainly got a lot of hits to my blog anyway!

So, hoping I feel up to going out for a glass of wine and a chat with Kristin when I arrive this arvo. I’m sure I will be fine. Tomorrow we have a pretty big day planned, a meeting with my web consultants, followed by a meeting with Jason at Bodizone, and then a training session, followed by a shower at his place apparently! Then off to visit Hils and have dinner at a Thai restaurant followed by the road trip home. Day after we’ll be meeting Sharna over coffee, then getting stuck into the work.

Oh how could I forget our curry cooking disaster last night! Sandra, I sent you the link, I won’t put it on my blog because it was so bloody hot it was inedible!!! It tasted great but holy moly. I think they have gotten the recipe wrong!!! We are so not familiar with spicy cooking – does 3 tbsp of cayenne pepper and 8 green chillies sound like a lot of heat???!! It was for a kg of chicken but I always thought cayenne pepper was like a ‘pinch’. I couldn’t eat all of mine it was just ridiculously burning hot, my eyes were watering and my nose was running. Damien’s head hurt :) We had a good laugh about it actually.

Well now my email says 3 mins to go, i have been here 50 mins, can you imagine? That’s how much email I have backed up I guess, need a good clean out.

Well once it decides to open I will take all my stuff and check in. Might buy a sushi pack on the way past, for lunch – though I do have tuna and veg in my bag, might save that for dinner. Will need to get groceries tonight actually or first thing tomorrow perhaps.

I played tennis!

Something I haven’t done in a long, long time! It was actually more a question of whether I would be able to hit the ball more than anything, but I quite impressed myself! And it was a really good workout! Just half an hour, and my forearm, wrist and hand is now rather achy and feels uncomfortable using my mouse! So, we have decided we will make it a weekly event on a Saturday morning. Now must go buy a tennis racket. We had to go buy some balls before we went, and I managed to find a nice Running Bare workout top in the 5 mins I was in the store. Didn’t try it on, just hoping for the best.

I have just printed out a healthy Indian Chicken Curry recipe that hubby and I are going to cook up tomorrow night. Actually, reminds me, we need to go grocery shopping. Will do that before I hit the gym for chest and rear delts.

I got up at 2.30am this morning, Damien was thrashing about in bed (again!) and it woke me. I pushed him off to the downstairs bedroom quick smart but I couldn’t go back to sleep. Got up for an hour or so and was really, really hoping I would get back to sleep because my sleeping this past few days has not been great, and consequently, it’s affecting my energy levels and concentration. Happy to say I did manage to do so and sleep in until 8am. So I am feeling rather normal today, and ready to tackle a good workout – unlike the last 2 days.

Just trying to upload a pic of Kristin at her comp but unfortunately my computer is playing silly buggers.

I must get all my washing done this weekend so I can pack for my trip on Monday. It’s been a bit cold here, so looking forward to some warmth. Let me go check the weather…typical, it’s getting cooler!! Oh well, I will just have to hope they are wrong. Still happy with 23-25 degrees though.

Meeting a client for coffee on Sunday in Broadbeach, I love doing that.

I think Nadia is back today, I heard she had a lovely time and wants to move to Qld. Don’t we all :)

We have quite a few clients finishing up their 12 weeks this week gone and this one coming, and I’m looking forward to seeing some great comparison photos.

On that note, time for a shower and some grocery shopping I think.

The email…

This was the email I received that prompted me to check out the blogs concerned and then post my thoughts…my response to the email is in capitals below….

Lately I am really confused about this new “movement” that’s sweeping across blogland…

Women whom I admired, who seemed very dedicated and serious about their fitness and health are seemingly changing direction.

They are bagging accountability of any form, they are refusing to weigh or measure (themselves or their food), and are embarking on these journeys of self discovery that don’t involve any set plans when it comes to food.

Most of these people have competed in Figure at least once, and they all talk about having eating disorders because they have been obsessed with weighing and measuring and as a result give in to bingeing on a regular basis.

When a girl who lost about 26kg and became a Figure Competitor wrote in her blog about the good old fashioned basics needed for weight loss, she was shot down for being so black and white and not giving any thought to the “heart mind body” connection.

As for me, I am delighted with the results I have achieved by following the IBO program. I need accountability, and if I don’t weigh or measure my food, how do I know if I’m eating too much or not enough? If I don’t weigh or measure myself, how do I know if I’m making progress?…As for the “heart mind body” thing, if I am happy, the three are in sync. Losing weight and improving my fitness levels has given me a lot of happiness and confidence, which makes all aspects of my life better.

Just wondering what your thoughts are, do you ever feel like throwing in the towel?

NO – BECAUSE THIS IS HOW I LIVE, I KNOW NOTHING ELSE (OTHER THAN WHAT IS A DISTANT MEMORY). I DON’T WEIGH AND MEASURE ALL THE TIME, NO WAY, I HAVE DONE ENOUGH OF THAT TO KNOW WHAT A PORTION SIZE IS FOR ME. I’VE DIETED ENOUGH TIMES TO KNOW WHAT IS TOO MUCH FOOD, TOO MANY CARBS, ETC ETC. BUT DEFINTELY IF YOU HAVE A GOAL THEN I DO BELIEVE YOU NEED TO BE QUITE METICULOUS ABOUT THINGS, OTHERWISE LIKE YOU SAY, HOW WILL YOU KNOW WHAT TO CHANGE IF YOU DON’T KNOW EXACTLY WHAT IS GOING IN!

I DON’T ALWAYS EAT PERFECTLY, WHATEVER THAT MAY BE – FOR INSTANCE, LAST NIGHT I HAD BBQ CHOOK (WITH SKIN AND STUFFING!) WITH SOME BOUGHT PASTA AND POTATO SALADS, LEFT OVER FROM OUR BBQ THE NIGHT BEFORE WHERE I ATE RISSOLES!!! I DON’T OBSESS OVER THAT THOUGH AND ALSO, IT DOESN’T HAPPEN OFTEN, PARTICULARLY 2 DAYS IN A ROW. MY USUAL DINNER MEAL WOULD BE SOME SORT OF LEAN PROTEIN WITH VEGGIES AND A BIT OF FAT, WHICH I ENJOY. I KNOW IF I DID THIS TOO OFTEN I’D GET FAT, SO I MAKE SURE I DON’T.

FIGURE COMPETITION CAN INDEED BE A HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE FOR THOSE WHO HAVE DISORDERED EATING PATTERNS. EVERYONE, AND I MEAN EVERYONE, HAS LEARNED THE HARD WAY (WELL SOME STILL PROBABLY HAVEN’T LEARNED). AFTER MY FIRST COMP I PUT ON 10KG IN THE NEXT 3 MONTHS. I BLOATED UP SO BADLY THE WEEK AFTER, AND MY BLOOD SUGAR WENT HAYWIRE – I JUST COULDN’T STOP EATING. MY LEGS WERE FULL OF FLUID AND IT HURT TO WALK OR BEND MY KNEES. IT WAS A NIGHTMARE. EVERY TIME I COMPETED I GOT A LOT BETTER WITH HOW I HANDLED THE AFTERMATH. I PUT WEIGHT BACK ON, OF COURSE, BUT SLOWLY. I THINK MY WEIGHT AT PRESENT IS ABOUT 2.5-3KG OVER MY WEEK BEFORE COMP WEIGHT. THAT’S PRETTY GOOD. I CAN LIVE LIKE THIS.

I DEFINITELY HAVE TO PULL MYSELF INTO LINE EVERY NOW AND THEN AS I CAN BECOME TOO COMPLACENT, BUT I KNOW WHEN THAT IS. I DO THINK IT’S IMPORTANT YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE METICULOUS ABOUT FOOD ALL THE TIME, OR IT DOES BECOME AN OBSESSION. I DIET WHEN I HAVE A REASON, OTHERWISE I JUST EAT HEALTHY AND USE THE BASIC RULES, PROTEIN WITH EACH MEAL, SMALL MEALS OFTEN, AND, I ALSO MAKE SURE I DON’T OVERDO THE CARBS OVER THE COURSE OF A DAY AND THAT MAY MEAN JUST HAVING A MEAL OR TWO THAT DON’T CONTAIN CARBS.

Am I better than you?

Thanks all for your comments, it certainly seems to have opened up a can of worms! For your info, LizN has dissected my post on her blog. Have a read and feel free to comment as she has asked, but for the record, my point was, it was an uneccessary comment. I mean what was the reason for asking it? It has since been described as ‘thought provoking’ – provoking perhaps, but without the thought!

The response from Shelley on Liz’s blog:

Sue, does it make you a better, stronger, happier person than me because you showed your abs in your “off season”?

Kristen, what’s the difference between Macca’s and mud cake when it comes to man-made, processed crap as you call it?

I am an open, honest and caring person. If anyone takes my writing as negative than that really is there problem, not mine and perhaps they should dig a bit deeper and find the real reason I pissed them off!

As for showing my (somewhat soft) abs during the offseason, yes, I put that up there to show that I’m better than you. LOL!

The point was quite the opposite, in that usually all the photos we see on blogs and competitors websites show people in their best condition. I wanted to show what I look like in the off season, when I’m ‘normal’ and not dieting, to let others know who have read the negative posts and have become somewhat confused, to have them understand that it doesn’t have to be black and white. You can eat well and still ‘live’. I too have struggled too with the same issues that everyone has, but have over the years managed to learn how to eat well but intuitively off season and not be on a diet year round.

If I have a goal (there is that word again) I diet and train with a structured plan. This only happens when I’m competing, so once in a blue moon.

Nobody said we should be on a diet indefinitely, and of course it’s counterproductive if you are, and yes, intuitive eating is something we should definitely aim for when we don’t have a specific goal in mind.

Bodybuilding and striving to reach a peak actually has saved me from the disordered eating patterns and body image issues that I used to deal with, so for me, thumbs up to it. I used to struggle and struggle to get to where I wanted to be, never getting there, always feeling like a failure, diet after diet.

Bodybuilding taught me commitment, consistency, patience, and gave me a tremendous sense of power and achievement when I completed the challenge – much like Kristin is feeling now. I then understood what it takes to actually get to that stage, the hard work, discipline, sweat and sometimes tears. Was it worth it? Of course. Is it worth it year round? No way.

So, offseason I’m happy to just sit a few kg over. Those last few kg aren’t worth the effort in the offseason. A bit of extra padding is fine with me. So, end result, I’m happy to get to lean and mean once every now and then, but otherwise, I’m happy to sit a few kg over. Before I wasn’t happy, I was always striving to be ‘better’.

Anyway, not sure if it all makes sense but of course, do whatever works, I know for most of my clients having that structured plan (and it’s not a ‘bodybuilding diet’, it’s a liveable plan) is what works. I still think that the more you write and think about it the more obsessed you become. We tend to overthink things and make them more of an issue than they really are.

I recently had a skype chat with a client who was struggling with her social life because she was dieting. We came up with a plan that would allow her to continue being social (ie going out to eat with her friends – and not having to order plain chicken/fish and veg/salad) and not having her feel guilty after doing so, and thus continuing to make progress AND enjoy the process. It can be done!

Self sabotage when it comes to diet is interesting, and here is my take. I really feel that if you are using food as a crutch or an outlet, there is probably something else in your life you are unhappy with – be it work, relationships, lifestyle etc. So maybe that should be a starting point, to have a look and see if those aspects maybe affecting the way you eat.

And Kristin, if you want to keep competing because it makes you feel great, you go for it girl!! Lots of people envy you.

Why the blog negativity?

Doing the rounds of blog land recently and have noticed that there seems to be a lot of negativity going on in the Figure comp/training/dieting world. It seems certain people are scouring blogs to try and take down anyone who enjoys improving their health and physique through structured training and nutrition.

Having goals is actually perceived as a negative by these people. Maybe this negativity has come about because these particular people were not successful at their own goals, and are envious of those who are, and those that enjoy the process of achieving them? Why shouldn’t you have a goal, something to drive you to improve and achieve? How someone can see this as a bad thing is beyond me.

It was also mentioned there is no such thing as a ‘bad food’ just the way you think and perceive the food.

Sorry, but tell me what’s good about a double whopper cheeseburger deluxe or whatever you want to call a bunch of fat, sugar and preservatives piled on top of each other? There is nothing good about this type of food, end of story. If you eat it, you are eating it for emotional reasons, so accept that, but don’t try and justify it by telling yourself it’s not bad for you.

Here’s a picture of me in the off season, taken this week. I manage to stay within a 2-3 kg of my week before comp weight. So I’m fatter, I’m softer, and feel a bit chunkier than I’d like but I’m very happy with where I sit off season. Maybe I’m lucky – but I don’t think so. I make an effort (and it’s really not hard) to eat well consistently – because I want to – it makes me feel good, physically and mentally. I’m not obsessed if I eat something that’s not particularly healthy. I just don’t need that kind of food on a regular basis. Nobody does.
Off season

Kristin recently mentioned on her blog that she was excited to be setting new goals toward another competition, having just completed her first (2) and having thoroughly enjoyed the experience. She was asked this question by a fellow blogger:

“Why do you have to have a goal, competing or other, to wake up each day with excitement and a purpose? Isn’t living a happy, fulfilled, contented life purpose enough?”

I’m a little confused. I mean, what do you think it is that makes a ‘happy, fulfilled, contented life’? Sitting on the couch watching tv and munching on Macca’s, simply existing? I don’t feel its right to bag those who enjoy the challenge of competing and the process that goes along with it. If that makes them feel great, that’s awesome. If it’s not for you, that’s fine too, but don’t go suggesting to those that do enjoy it, that they should be happy just ‘existing’ without the challenge of improvement and competition.

I always wonder why, if these people aren’t obsessed themselves, why are they continually talking about food and dieting within their blogs? They aren’t fooling anyone!

So, here’s my question to readers out there – what >makes your life happy, fulfilled and contented? Love to hear your responses!

Still on competition, here’s an article that was recently in the Adelaide Advertiser, that I just uploaded to my site. Written by the lovely Kathy Marusic, my excellent ‘backstage b*tch” on the day!!

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