Well it seems every man and his dog is getting pregnant! Just read Shar’s blog, congrats Shar (if you happen to read), that’s awesome news. And of course Hils, which is just lovely, and Marce too!
I have my own story to share here. Awhile ago you may have noticed there was a bit of a depressed and sad feel about my blog posts. About 4 weeks ago I was pregnant too. First go, bang, preggo, found out when we were on the Gold Coast. Must have conceived the very week (ie a few days!) after my comp. We were very proud of that effort, me being 40, and our first go and all. We were so excited, we really weren’t expecting it and it was a real surprise. Every waking (and even sleeping!) thought was about being pregnant. It gave me such a calm, contented feeling. A week later it all turned to crap. I started bleeding. And didn’t stop for a week. I ended up in emergency, for 3 hours, sitting there waiting, knowing that I was losing my baby. Hoping it would stop and they would be able to tell me everything was still ok. Everytime I went to the bathroom to check, the blood flow seemed to be just getting heavier, and I had terrible cramping to go with it. So, the realization started to sink in, and my thoughts, somehow, had to return to ‘normal’ and forget about being pregnant. As I said, it took a week to get over the physical symptoms of the miscarriage, so it wasn’t like I could even try forget about it. I didn’t want to see anyone, talk to anyone or go anywhere. I was so tired, and was sleeping all the time – natural I suppose, my poor bod had just finished a comp, got pregnant and miscarried all within the space of a few weeks.
So, anyway, that was a month ago now, and I am very much normal again now. I visited the ob/gyn on Monday anyway, and had a good chat to him. We will just keep trying and see what happens. My cycle is already back to normal so bring it on.
I’m sharing the story because, well, it’s part of my life, and it’s part of what I have had to deal with. I must say I’ve become quite resilient in my old age! Which brings me to publish a lovely email I received from a reader recently:
Hi Sue
I am sure you hear it all the time but just wanted to know that you are very inspiring and it really helps for you to write your blogs warts and all, and not bullshit that everyday is sunshine any bunny rabbits and that we are all the same and not alone.
Everyday certainly isn’t sunshine and bunny rabbits
But we do what we have to.
Anyway, I am so, so happy for Hils and Shar and Marce and everyone else that is preggo or had babies recently. I hope to join you soon!



















